Never , ever, ever, ever in a million years did I expect to be single past 26! I was raised with the hopes of being a staying at home mother, supporting my successful husband, and cultivating a picture perfect home. After years of beating my self up for not finding "happiness" and being ashamed of ALWAYS having to explain WHY I am still single to family and friends, I have decided to be a VOICE for women , we are all experiencing the same thing!
Let me start out by saying, what century is this? Women are no longer traded for land or cows. We dont start having children at 18. To live in this world requries more knowledge and education then ever before.
Let me start out by saying, what century is this? Women are no longer traded for land or cows. We dont start having children at 18. To live in this world requries more knowledge and education then ever before.
Not to mention, the quality of MAN that exsisted just a short 50 years ago( a gentleman, chivillress, upstanding, respectful, God Fearing and loyal) is practically an EXTINCT SPECIES. And if you find that man, there is always a chance he is addicted to porn. Thats right, he will choose watching fake , plastic, unrealistic women on a computer screen, over putting in the work to seek out a real women, in the real world, who will show him real love.
Ladies, marriage may not find you in this life, but thats not the end! In many ways, its a blessing to be free of some of the horrid things that comes with a bad marriage or bad marriage partner. For those of you giving away your virtue for free living with a man, SHAME ON YOU, you are part of the problem! No man will ever buy a "house" if the rent is FREE! If he isnt willing to put a ring on it next week or set a date, its TIME TO GIVE HIM THE BOOT!
Men, get your shiz together! Find yourself a role model, a good man, a husband or father, a guy who has what you really want. Stop listening to the LIES the media has sold you and told you! do you really want to live with that tiny, bitchy, hot bodied, unvirtuous , unloyal woman, that at any day could leave you, and could become prego with a child you NEVER wanted to have with her in the first place.
Ladies, marriage may not find you in this life, but thats not the end! In many ways, its a blessing to be free of some of the horrid things that comes with a bad marriage or bad marriage partner. For those of you giving away your virtue for free living with a man, SHAME ON YOU, you are part of the problem! No man will ever buy a "house" if the rent is FREE! If he isnt willing to put a ring on it next week or set a date, its TIME TO GIVE HIM THE BOOT!
Men, get your shiz together! Find yourself a role model, a good man, a husband or father, a guy who has what you really want. Stop listening to the LIES the media has sold you and told you! do you really want to live with that tiny, bitchy, hot bodied, unvirtuous , unloyal woman, that at any day could leave you, and could become prego with a child you NEVER wanted to have with her in the first place.
You are meant to be happy! Happiness is coming home to a smart woman, that you know loves you, is commited to you forever, has sacraficed herself to bring children into this world, a woman that supports your interests, and a woman has her own career and talents(but is willing to give them up to stay at home and raise children).
I have written out a list of what my HAPPY single life will look like this year....ITS AMAZING! So many many things to do so many men to date, so many places to go,and so much money to make!
And to my future husband, I love you, I think of you daily, I hope you find me soon, but I refuse to put my life on hold while you aren't here.
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